V and X Falling in Love and Velvet in Dupont Velvet on 01 Jun 2009
It’s the end but it’s not the end. This is the last piece of the story, but the story keeps going, and yes, the blog keeps going. Shutting down hasn’t occurred to me, at least not yet. And I don’t have a big engagement ring picture to show you. While that would be a happy [...]
V and X Falling in Love and Velvet in Dupont Velvet on 29 May 2009
September 2008 - February 2009
September would be the witching hour for this divorce. The conversations between X and the hopefully soon to be ex Mrs. X were in full force. She was on the emotional roller coaster from hell and dragging everyone down with her. Seriously. Sometimes I wished she knew about me so I [...]
V and X Falling in Love and Velvet in Dupont Velvet on 28 May 2009
2008: June - September
It might seem like telling about the fighting is personal, almost too personal. But I want to tell the whole story. It’s not always roses and lollipops, even when the love is the deepest and most lasting of any love of your life. And it’s important, for me anyway, to convey that [...]
V and X Falling in Love and Velvet in Dupont Velvet on 27 May 2009
2008: May
As we approached summer our relationship was moving forward by its actions, but there were some ridiculous administrative details in a holding pattern. We had two elephants in the room:
1) Despite the months of banter on the subject, X couldn’t say he loved me. This on its own isn’t bothersome because as he said [...]
V and X Falling in Love and Velvet in Dupont Velvet on 25 May 2009
2008: January - April
During December, ex-boss and I got seemingly more involved with each other by way of some really deep conversations, but at the turn of the new year, I think I shook myself awake, literally. I just realized that maybe this wasn’t going to pan out the way I had thought and I [...]
